How can I reach orgasm with and without sex toys?
This angle makes it easier to reach and stimulate the G-Spot. Another option is squatting, which can intensify the pressure on the G-Spot. Explore different positions to discover what works best for your body. Finally, in addition to the obvious challenges of the stop and go nature of shooting sex scenes for the performers and the crew, shooting squirting is particularly risky for even the cameras.
This position feels so intense because we’re lying flat on each other, and our weight adds pressure right on the G-spot. It’s not about fast thrusting—it’s the slow, deep strokes that create the tension we need. We like the way this position feels snug and tight, making every movement count. For some of us, this extra weight and control make it easier to squirt how to squirt, so keep it steady.
They’re so close to each other, and I have people swear up and down all the time it comes from their vaginas. And it can feel that way, since there are lots of nerve endings that are similar in the urethra and the opening of the vagina. And finally, setting the stage means you need to communicate with her.
If you’re masturbating in the bathtub and then cleaning your sex toys after, you’re already casting like three spells at once. We’ve focused a lot on women and female bodies, but gender and sexuality aren’t the determining factors. Anyone with a vulva can do it, including trans and non-binary people. For those identifying as men who don’t know what it feels like to ejaculate, the urethral gush that happens when you squirt can be an empowering, gender-affirming experience. Female squirting, also known as female ejaculation or squirting orgasm, refers to the release of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. It is a topic that has sparked curiosity and interest among many people.
Interestingly, research has found that for 10% of women, “[s]quirting happens as fingers/toy or penis come out of my vagina” [13]. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for stimulating your G Spot. With your other hand, you’ll be massaging your clit. These squirting techniques work while you are masturbating alone or having sex with your partner, even if you’ve never squirted before. The overall sensitivity of the anal area can ramp up the experience of squirting from anal sex. There are tons of nerve-endings that can experience pleasure and for some people, the overall higher level of intensity can help increase the likelihood of squirting.
Squirting isn’t always a high-volume event that soaks the sheets. Sometimes it is a small trickle or a stream of fluid. You can explain that attempting to squirt could take a while, so your partner will know not to get ahead of themselves. In this position, the penetrative partner sits beneath the other partner.